Sunday, November 22, 2009
College Football
I will admit that I have been a fan of college football since childhood and of the 3 levels, high school, college and then the NFL, I am 10 times more of a fan of college ball than any other.
I love the high school games and especially the playoffs and these guys are the feeder systems for my college ball. I love it.
But, I love college ball more. By the time they get to the Pros, it's more of a business and not quite as much fun. I still watch the NFL sometimes, but I never miss a college football Saturday if I can help it.
Soon, I will not be able to help it because the games will be over and I'll have to find something else to do with my Saturdays.
Searching the internet, I noticed there are blogs on college football. But, I was not that overly impressed and I want to write my own next season.
Now, we have 2 or 3 games left and it's over.
I am eagerly looking forward to next August already.
Sunday, October 25, 2009
Waffle House, I am falling for you


The lifelong roommate and I were in Dallas this weekend seeing our family. We decided to eat breakfast at a Waffle House.
It was chaos inside with a lot of hungry people and limited seating.
As we were patiently waiting on a table, I got a call from our answering service about a particularly annoying plumbing problem which sort of upset me because it should have been fixed already.
I stepped outside to talk on the phone in peace.
With the problem potentially solved, I returned to our group to again wait patiently.
As I came in the door, a very small boy ran out in front of me. I didn't really notice him in time to completely avoid him and had to swerve to miss him.
It was all a blur at that point and I really don't know what happened, but I somehow lost my balance and was unable to correct in time before I found myself laying on the floor. I don't know if the floor was slippery, or if I tripped over my own feet. But, somehow I wound up falling completely to the floor.
Everyone was completely stunned. The family with the small boy was just staring at me with shocked expressions, not quite knowing what to do or say.
I was not hurt, I don't think. The family apologized, the boy was fine and all was well.
But, I was embarrassed.
Most of all, I felt very, very vulnerable. There's no way you can fall on your face in public and ever be cool again.
There's no way of falling and ever having a chance at saving face. You have gone from an unknown person in the room full of people to being stared at by everyone. I was anxious for everyone that had seen the huge incident to be leaving the restaurant and forgetting they had ever seen me and my embarrassing fall.
And, I really don't like being stared at.
This was just one more big, grim reminder that I am getting older and I am not the man I used to be. That is hard to deal with at times, but something that everybody goes through if they are lucky enough to become older.
Older people fall a lot and I am not at that level, but this fall made me feel a little older than I want to be.
I had kind of hoped to make it through my life without taking an embarrassing public fall.
Too late for that now.
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Atrial Fibrillation
I have it and I am sick of having it.
Approximately 2.2 million Americans also have it.
Compared to a lot of diseases and physical issues it's not a bad thing. It's not cancer.
But, it is annoying and can cause strokes.
A brief description of A-Fib is it's an abnormal heart rhythm.
I guess my main beef with A-Fib is doctors. I started having these problems years ago. I went to doctors several times complaining of strange symptoms.
I was told I had this or that and was given drugs to fight this or that. Only problem is, after a while, you realize these guys don't know much about what they are doing and they are guessing.
I don't like to be the subject of guesswork, but that is often what you are when you enter a doctor's office.
My dad went to doctors for three years complaining of headaches. Then, one day, he had a brain tumor and died a month later.
Well, what had he been telling doctors for three years? Could there have been a reason for a man to have headaches for so long?
After years of complaining that I didn't feel right, I finally had had enough and went to a minor emergency clinic near my house when the physical outbreak was actually taking place.
Of course, the doctor had no clue what was wrong and said I should go to the real hospital immediately. I was hesitant, but they insisted and even called an ambulance to haul me over.
Low and behold, it was the ambulance driver that instantly knew that I had Atrial Fibrillation. Doctors may have never figured that out on their own.
The biggest step is often figuring out what exactly is going on in your body.
Well, not so fast.
Heart specialist prescribed drugs to control the A-Fib.
But, the problem is, the drugs don't work and A-Fib continues to creep up from time to time.
Too often to suit me. 15% of stroke victims have A-Fib and I don't want to be in that 15%.
I don't intend to be in that 15%.
At this point, I am reasonably convinced that doctors don't care because they make more money if people are sick.
Sunday, October 11, 2009
Bringing the world to West Texas

Sunday, October 4, 2009
Letter to Mini-Me
OK, OK, I know this makes me look weak, but I am going to post it anyway.I went through some hard times, lost a lot of money, lost my self-respect and put my roommate through some really rough times.
They aren't over yet. But, I am probably a little hardened and tougher now.
But, at the time, I went to a counselor just because I needed to talk to somebody outside my family and I had no real friends that I would burden with my problems.
He had me write a letter to myself when I was a kid. It's really too bad I couldn't get the letter to myself when I was about 10.
I called this the Letter to Mini-Me and I was going through my documents on my computer and thought I would post it here.
Stop calling me a wimp and get to reading.
LETTER TO MINI-ME
Dear Mini-Me,
Relax little fella, everything‘s going to be all right.
Trust me on this, some day you will have the final say, the last laugh if you will. Anyone that calls you stupid or insinuates the same, doesn’t know the real you or what’s inside of you.
Hold your head up and look people in the eyes, because they don’t know what’s in your heart. They don’t know your desires or your capabilities. They don’t know that you can do or be anything you want if you have set your mind to it.
Just because you don’t know the name of some tool that does not make you ignorant. In fact, I think that makes you brilliant at even an early age. Even then, you could see the uselessness of doing manual labor and realize, even though you were not fully aware yet, that you can be far more successful using your mind as opposed to your hands.
Because of your early life, you thought you had to live up to other people’s standards or lifestyles. You didn’t.
I wish I could tell you this now in reality and save you lots of wasted time and pain. Hard work is good, but only hard work that will take you in the direction that you need to go. The guy under the car is not the bright one, or he would have brought the tools he needs to get the job done correctly. You are a kid, be a kid. You want to play ball, look at girls and other things boys do.
Let your imagination run wild, because that is what will take you places. The traditional way of life may be good for some, but it will never be for you. Make your own way and don’t worry what others think. Worry about what God thinks and when all is said and done, you will be more successful and happy.
The world really is your oyster. You can do, or be, anything you want. You can live anywhere you want. Experience life and don’t be afraid. Fear is nothing but a lie and you don’t have to live under that. People will try and push you away, don’t let them. Stand tall and firm and fight for what is right and for what you want.
Decide what you want and just go for it. Don’t let things and especially fear hold you back. There are no legitimate excuses for not doing the things you are capable of doing.
People usually don’t mean to harm you or to do the things that they sometimes do to others. Rise above it and be strong, because that’s what you are. Be strong and courageous.
You don’t have to listen to what somebody else tells you that you are or how somebody else defines you. Define yourself and make your life the best that it can be.
Press on, Mini-me, but enjoy life now.
Sincerely,
Me
Cruise Night

Wednesday, September 30, 2009
So, You Want to be a Landlord
I am going to write about the good and the bad and there has been a whole lot of each over the years.
I'm not sure what this will do to my blogging time, but I will soon find out.
Monday, September 28, 2009
Poopoo Padooskoo and other stories

Sunday, September 27, 2009
For Your Eyes Only

The Loud and the Proud

This morning, my lifelong roommate and I went to the balloon fest again and we were hoping to see all the balloons take off. We saw a grand total of one. The rest packed up and went home because it was a little too windy for them, the pansies. :)
So, we took off slowly for home not really wanting to go home just yet, at least I didn't and I probably should have asked the roomie her opinion on the matter.
We stumbled upon a really cool place in our meandering. It was a rather large piece of sculpture by the Bible Building at Abilene Christian University. Since it was Sunday morning and still pretty early there was nobody anywhere around. The sculpture probably deserves it's own time.
The roommate decided on taking pictures so I just kind of wandered around aimlessly. I saw a loose dog that looked to be lost and I sat down to call the little fella over to me. The stinking little fella wanted none of that and took off like shot out of a cannon. I decided to just sit and chill a bit.
Then, the Blue Jays arrived in all of their glory. Ah, I know a lot of people don't like these loud little rascals, but when I hear them I am often transformed into another time and another place.
They always make me think about my childhood and the many summers spent in Gainesville, Texas. I was born and raised in the lower Rio Grande River Valley otherwise known as just 'the Valley'. But, my Pappy had his college degree and my Mom was finishing up with hers at Pan American University in Edinburg and also North Texas State in Denton. Gainesville is just a few miles from Denton, so we spent a lot of my early summers in Gainesville staying with my grandparents.
We called my grandfather Papa, and I was my Papa's boy. Hate to brag, but I am pretty sure I was his favorite. My siblings or a cousin or two might argue that, but to my dying day I will claim to be his favorite. He will always be one of my favorite people that I have ever known in my entire life.
We didn't have the Blue Jays in the Valley to my memory, but they were plentiful in Gainesville and they made enough noise to stick in my mind and last through the school year until we got back up to Gainesville. The noise these birds made was so distinctive to me that it still stirs up thoughts of yesteryear even today some 40 years later. To me, that's kind of incredible in itself.
Now, Gainesville days were happy days. My Papa was special and he took good care of us.
He was a cowboy. He had been forced to sell his home place when his brothers and sisters wanted their fair shares, but he never gave up his love of horses and cattle so he had a small place and he leased a bunch of ranch land. We spent a lot of time helping him take care of things around the places.
I learned to ride at an early age and like to brag that I grew up on a back of a horse. That's not entirely true, but we did ride a lot and looked forward to those times. Later on, my Papa also bought us our own little horse that we had down on our tiny hacienda in the Valley.
Fun times. It's almost amusing that I look at it that way because sometimes he worked me pretty good. I helped him haul hay a couple of times and we worked cattle and all kinds of other chores. But, I guess I tend to look at it as good times mostly and overlook the work and the sweat.
As I was sitting by that sculpture this morning, I was taken back to that place and time when things were simple and easy and they just made sense.
My Papa has been gone a long time. So have his horses and all those cows. The land has all changed and I doubt I could even find it anymore. Those old Blue Jays are dead and gone and have been replaced by newer just as loud versions reminding me of the good ole days. Thinking those thoughts that I am now typing made me feel a little weird and a little sad, but I am so thankful for those good ole days and my Papa and the wonderful memories that I have of him and being his favorite.
I wouldn't take the world for them.
From my father I learned a work ethic, from my Papa I learned that there's always tomorrow.
Thanks, Papa, for the wonderful memories and the knowledge that tomorrow is sometimes soon enough.
And, thank you Blue Jays for being so dang loud and proud and for taking me back.
Saturday, September 26, 2009
Tyson the Flying Dog
Well, the dog didn't really fly. At least, not on his own. He flew, but he had a little bit of help.
Once upon a time we lived in a house on Cedar Creek in Abilene. Our children were raised in this house as was my roommate for the most part.
It was a happy time for us for the most part.
Across the street lived a family with a couple of really rotten boys. One of them was worse than the other and the other actually turned out to be a really good person.
But, these boys were everywhere and out of control. They were always at our house and getting into everything and getting into trouble.
They had a boxer named Tyson.
Tyson was a good dog as most boxers are and really gentle and easy going.
One day the boys were playing in the street as they often did. Cedar Crest street was our address and not such a bad street. But the side street by our house and the neighbor's house was College Drive which is sort of busy. It's one of the main thoroughfares linking Abilene Christian University with the rest of Abilene.
So, consequently, college kids drive down this street pretty often and they also often speed.
The boys were playing in the street and Tyson was right there amongst them playing as he often did.
I was working in the yard and noticed their usual antics and yelled at them to get out of the street and watch out for the dog because he could get hit by a speeding car.
As soon as I yell, sure enough here comes a car being driven by ACU coeds. The story might have been different if they had been driving something else, but lucky for us the young lady was driving a Pontiac Fiero which is tiny.
I like to say in my story that they were going 50 MPH, but honestly I really don't know how fast they were going.
But, they were going pretty fast.
They hit Tyson pretty hard right before my eyes.
As the title of my story says, Tyson took off in flight. In my mind, he is spinning around and around in slow motion and I can still see it vividly as I type this.
He sailed an incredible distance and at least 10 to 15 feet in the air.
After viewing this with my mouth open, I take off on a run towards the street but have to hop down two terraces about four to five feet high each.
By then, the boys are crying at the top of their lungs. I am running and finally get down the terraces and onto street level.
As soon as I hit the street, Tyson comes running by me at top speed heading towards his house. Again, as before, my mouth has dropped open in unbelief as I realize this dang dog is not even injured.
Everybody runs to the neighbors house following Tyson.
By the time we get there, the college girls are pulling up in their sports car and they get out shaking with mixed fear and grief at what had just happened.
We examine the dog all together and are amazed that this amazing little beast just got hit by a car at that speed and flew through the air so high and so far and was not even scratched. I have been impressed with the toughness of boxers ever since this day.
This is my story and I have told it a lot. A million times s a bit of a stretch but I have told it as many times as I can find somebody to listen.
Thanks for listening as I amuse myself one more time with what I think is an amazing story.
Tyson is long gone. The neighborhood boys are grown and moved off and I have moved on as well.
But, Tyson the flying dog is still among one of my favorite stories and I love to share it with others.
My Ole Pappy and the South Rim

Surviving Tough Times

If you think Texting and Driving is Bad

Tuesday, September 22, 2009
Ella

Monday, September 21, 2009
First Cold Front

Sunday, September 20, 2009
Big Sky Country
I wasn't really aware that it rained so little in Montana. I did not do my homework before my trip and obviously I didn't even know I was going on a trip. But, it rains very little there. It snows pretty heavily, but as far as actual rain I was reading that the state wide average is 11 inches per year.That's about as much as Midland, Texas gets which is pretty dry.
However, in spite of my love for rainy, cloudy weather it is hard to beat the skies of Montana.
As you can see from the picture above which was taken by my lovely roommate, the skies are incredibly blue.
The blue tint of the sky is only matched by the unique color of the glacier water throughout Glacier National Park.
I found myself time after time scanning the cliffs for mountain goats and scenery, and just getting distracted by the color of the sky. It was just amazing.
Montana is not for everybody. If you are into sandy beaches, bikinis or the night life of a New York or a Miami, then Montana is probably not for you.
But, if you are into incredible mountain scenery, and nature, Montana is hard to beat.
Montana is truly the Big Sky Country. I highly recommend a visit.
Things I like

A Tree in the Desert

Many years ago I was talking to an Abilene Christian University student and he told me that his grandfather planted a lot of the trees on the ACU campus.
I was impressed with that because Abilene, Texas is basically a desert. It's not as bad as the desert pictured above, but it's pretty dry for the most part. The trees the man's grandfather planted are fairly good sized trees now and a big improvement on the other option, no trees. Without people with foresight planting trees, there would be none of any size at all in this part of the world.
I've planted a lot of trees. Not all of them lived, but most of them did and some of them are getting fairly large now. I consider that making some kind of difference in my life and the lives of people that live here many years from now.
It was my way of making a difference.
There are many ways to make a difference and I don't necessarily recommend planting a tree and leaving it at that, but if that's all you can do then that is something.
Everybody should do something to make a difference in somebody else's life. I hope before I am done with this world, there are a ton of other things that I have done to help others.
I used to have a plan that I would do something each day to help somebody else out in need. A lot of times that meant jump starting a car. Or, carrying somebodies trash out for them. Or, helping somebody in any general way. How about letting somebody in when they are trying to enter a busy highway?
I am not placing a guilt trip on the one person that might actually read this, but what if we all went out of our way to help the people we run into every day.
What if our life time goal was to help as many people in need as we can?
What kind of a difference would that make in this world? Would it be a kinder, gentler world? Would people be less grouchy? Would we learn to love our fellow man and forget about the differences between us?
Let's give it a shot.
Abilene, Texas is not as bleak as Saudi Arabia but what if that man, or somebody else, had not planted a tree?
Last day of vacation

Day 6:
I haven't had internet in days and it's strange how spoiled I am these days.